Thanks giving came late this year for me. A lot of times these days, I feel that people celebrate holidays just because they are on the calendar rather than really feeling the meaning of special days. Today was one of these special days for me and ended a weekend full of everything imaginable.
Saturday night was the Depedida party of Dhanur, who is leaving Colombia shortly to go work for DHL in Singapore. The party was amazing, including a pre-game at Dhanur's house (unfortunately due to the forgetfulness of some, the Hobo did not make an appearance), then continued with a full night at Cha Cha (a night club on the top floor of one of Bogota's sky scrappers over looking the cit), and ended with a few of us carrying Ceasar home from the club because his birthday got a little bit away from him at Cha Cha.
Tonight was one of the most difficult yet inspiring nights of my time here in Bogota. Christian is a Mexican exchange student who was on the Executive Board of my committee here in Colombia. On Wednesday he ends his one year stay in Colombia. To say his expereince was full is quite the understatement. He experienced it all here: love, heart ache, friendship, hard work, passion, theft, devotion... the list could go on forever. As he said goodbye to all of those who meant so much to him during his time here was incredibly inspiring, but also heart breaking. It really touched me on an AIESEC level because it was this organization tht brought us all together and that gave us a worthwhile activity to do, but really the bonds in that room were much stronger than anything AIESEC. As I sat there and listened to the poetry of Christian's Spanish and felt the emotion behind every tear that was shed, I felt fulfilled. I felt as though that this intense learning experience was invaluable. I havn't felt that strongly perhaps since my first true expereince in this crazy organization, in Brazil. It's not passion towards anything other than people. I only hope I cry as hard when I leave this country and these people who are in my life right now. I only hope the words come as they did to christian about how deeply he cares for and respects those who he has spent time with here. I hope everyone who has an international expereince can leave with the same pain and the same knowledge that he or she has learned more than he or she ever thought possible.
So I am thankful for friends who care for me and those who I care for. I am thankful for those who listen and understand even if they don't want to. I am thankful everyone's tears tonight and for all of us learning together.